She told me she had some clothes that she wanted to give to me because she would have to throw them out otherwise. I thought it would be a scarf or two and a pair of jeans. WRONG! It was at least four skirts, two kurtas, at least five scarves, and a red shalwar kameez complete with a dupatta.
the skirts and scarves and the kurtas i can wear (and probably will, seeing as i don't have a lot of clothes), but maybe not the shalwar kameez.
it's gorgeous. it's not extremely fancy and made out of satin-y silk-y material like the fancy ones (so it would be a be a bit too casual for eid or a desi party) but it would be perfect for going to the mosque (where at least 80% of the muslim community here is desi and people stare at you funny if you're not in a shalwar kameez or a sari or an abaya).
it's lightweight, but warm. it's extremely confortable. i would wear the pants all day every day if i could. but i don't want it, or any of the clothes she gave me.
because if they're in my closet, it means she's not here.
we have been good friends since seventh grade and her and her family are like extended family to me, even though we never hung out a lot outside of school. but they coached me in my islam and helped to guide me, as well as providing me with advice, rides to the mosque, knowledge, and amazing food.
the first time i went to the mosque to pray after becoming muslim was with them. and when Yy and her sister Mm forced me into a shalwar kameez for the first time before we could go to the mosque, their dad saw me and said, "You look like my third daughter!"
The red shalwar kameez is going to hang in my closet until maybe tomorrow when I go to tarawih with Ee and her family. Maybe I'll wear it. She said just wear jeans, but I want to wear the red shalwar kameez just for Yy and Mm and their little brother and their parents. I'll wear it only a few times, because I want it to be special. Just for them.
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